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Lola
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Post subject: Married and not satisfied
 Posted: Sep 25, 2010 - 02:01 PM
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Joined: Sep 25, 2010
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I have one event in my life that i constantly struggle in to understanding what happend not sure if I will ever know or even if i can come to terms that it was just a moment in my life that he was not into me.
I met this guy almost a year after my separation from my first husband and I though that we would endure and last, sex was great, we complimented eachother in almost everything. He would be thoughtful, we always had something to talk about and even if we did not just being with eachother was enough. We traveled and at the time it was all about us. I had one struggle that he had three children with three different women and I have nothing against that or them for I did not see myself being a number in his life for that matter I already had two children of my own and he had three and having children was not an issue.
when I had the opportunity to have my children with me we decided to have two household because I wanted to make sure my children were safe and that he was the right one for us.
we probably should have made a time line as to how long but we were fine with the arrangment. We spend weekends at his place and the weeks would be at my place so as to make it easy for the kids to go to school in the summer months his children would come and stay with me and he would be there all the time.
In ealry january I received a red cross that my father was ill and i went to see him. My father was in bad shape and I decided to move so that I can help him at the time my boyfriend was fine with it and we made everything work through that first year I would pay him visits any time I could afford it and had the time and he came that summer for two weeks with his kids and we had a great time.
I visited him twice in October and then in November and I really thought it was all good but then in December he told me that he had met someone and that he was felling lonely and depressed. I was heartbroken to say the least and that following summer he married this new lady.
7 month it took him to marrie her and I was there for almost 4 years and never did the word marriage be addressed should I have been more aggressive or it was going to happen anyway? |
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