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rachelmarie
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Post subject: love life
 Posted: May 09, 2009 - 05:19 AM
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| I am in love with my boss. Im almost 20 and he is 31. He has been married for a yr witha baby on the way. I can't help myself. I love everything about him. I could talk to him for hrs, about nothing. What do i do? |
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Janice
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Post subject: RE: love life
Posted: May 13, 2009 - 09:05 PM
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The workplace can be a very intimate environment where feelings can develop for people that would not necessarily hold up outside of the office. The fact that he's married with a baby on the way tells me that he's basically unavailable to you. So you are really just torturing yourself thinking that you're in love with him because it's unlikely that it would be reciprocated.
I resopnded to similar questions about workplace relationships in my message board posts Why am I attracted to my older boss? and Help! I'm in love with my boss. In them, I warn against getting involved with one's boss as it can jeopardize your employment; and in this economy, that may be enough to prevent someone from acting on their feelings. I also suggest the possibility of getting transferred to another job so that the source of interest is not in your face every day.
I suggest that you read those articles over to see if they help you deal with your current situation. If there's anything else you need, I invite you to come back. Good luck! |
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