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Souljah
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Post subject: Im Going Out With A Girl>>>is she interested or not
Posted: Mar 22, 2009 - 01:50 AM
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I met Some Girl Her Name Is Jocelyn.. Im A Rapper So We Got connected through Music... now were workin together on that... im really attracted by her.. Now Were going out and meeting up in the studio once a week.. i text her and call her and i did what i thought i was suppose to do..so w.e we have like 2 weeks since we met... seen her about 3 times... at first we started talkin alot i felt she was interested but i was suppose to go to a meetin out of town this weekend she told me to let her know if i wasnt gon go so we could go out i didnt go to the meeting and i texted her that same morning we was gon go out... she told she couldnt.. so i tried to set up a date with her on sunday she said she was busy so i dont know. now i feel like shes changed the way she act with me... how do i get her to be interested in me ??? i really like her and i want her....what can i do ??? please answer ppl give me some advice... |
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Janice
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Posted: Apr 27, 2009 - 03:33 PM
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It sounds like you have some things in common -- like music and recording. Other than that, you didn't give enough information to indicate that you have any other ways of gaining her interest. In order to tell if someone is genuinely interested in you, you have to feel her out and determine what you might have in common, and if that can bring you closer.
This is a good example of how you may be able to enlist someone who knows both of you to find out where she stands. If she says she's curious about you, and maybe even interested in you, then you have an opening to ask her out again. If she's neutral, then you may want to just hang out in a group before taking the step to see if she'd be intereseted in going somewhere alone with you.
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Souljah
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Posted: Apr 27, 2009 - 09:48 PM
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Hello Janice!! Thanks For The Advice!!
well its been a while since i posted that!1
and things with the gurl i was talkin about are actually going swell!!
we did go out on a date and it was perfect and now im seeing her everyweek at least once a week in the studio and im also going to her church so she could see that im interested and that i care. shes acting sweet around me but i still dont know if she might be interested or not!! i feel like i dont know her as well to know that,. shes kinda hard to figure out. and i did tell my friend to ask her and she said that she likes the confidence weve given each other and that she enjoys me going to church with her so i feel things are going better than before but she also told me about a month ago that shes coming out of a relationship so i think that was the reason why she was acting like that before!!oh and i dont know i dont feel like ive gotten enough signals to make that move and kiss her!! sooo so any more advice ??? what u think about this now!!! ?????? thank you..  |
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