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adderall09
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Post subject: could use some advice...
 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 - 05:58 PM
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| I am a 22 yr old male and i have been in a relationship with a girl for about 3 months now. Things have been so good between the two of us. However, over the past few weeks we have got into some arguments (mainly due to alcohol). I have had many thoughts about ending our relationship over the past month or so because of the way she acts. She is a very flirty girl. I have seen this pretty much our entire relationship and it bothers me. Everytime we go out she is constantly flirting with other guys and claims that her intentions are not what I think they are. We have talked about this and most of our arguments are about this. I love this girl to death and I truely want it to work out but I am scared it might not. We just recently decided to take a "break." I don't know where this will lead to but I wanted to know if I should just move on or give it another shot? My memories with her are mostly good ones but I have too much self-respect for myself to deal with this. How should I approach this situation? I know she loves me and I love her as well. I could use any advice right now b/c I just don't know what to do |
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kim
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Post subject: RE: could use some advice...
Posted: Aug 22, 2009 - 09:03 PM
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| Hi..... it sounds to me like you know what you want and that you are uncomfortable with her flirting . Only someone who is there would know if you are being too sensitive to her just being 'friendly' or if she is being disrespectful to you by being overly friendly with the opposite sex despite knowing that it bothers you. I think.... communicating your feelings honestly is probably the best way to move on.... if she maintains that she hasn't done anything wrong but her current behavior but her behavior upsets you maybe it is best to make the break more permanent. Best |
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