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joey69
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Post subject: why does ex keep in touch
 Posted: May 18, 2008 - 07:09 AM
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Joined: May 18, 2008
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Hi,
Five years ago I split with my wife and within months I started dating another women.
It only lasted 4 months but we spent some quality time together and it was good.
The reason it ended basically is that I decided to go back to my wife and work on our relationship for the sake of our 2 children.
I didn't hear from this women for some 15 months then out of the blue she contacts me and tells me she is getting married.
I congraulated her and went through the motions and since then she txts me every 8-9 months asking if i'm ok are my kids ok, am i happy etc.
It's obvious her husband does not know because she contacts me when she is away on business.
she is financially secure and has everything she wants so why is she keeping in touch?
Just being friendly? |
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Janice
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Posted: May 19, 2008 - 04:42 PM
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Joined: Mar 19, 2004
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Location: New York City
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I can't tell you why this woman wants to continue to be in touch. There are a few "maybes," however. Maybe she wants to keep you in her radar up until the time she actually marries this other guy, just in case your marriage breaks up again and you become available. Maybe she wants to continue your friendship, although that's not such a good idea if neither of you tell your current spouses.
You didn't say if you were uncomfortable with her occasional communications; but if you are, then of course you should tell her. However, if you're curious as to why she wants to keep in touch, the best way to find out is by asking her. |
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joey69
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Posted: May 19, 2008 - 06:13 PM
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Hi Janice, i did say in my post that she is already married now and has been for some 3 years.
I just find it strange when she has everything, money, marriage etc why she wants to keep in touch, we aint seen each other for almost 5 years.
I don't mind her getting in touch but i'm sure our other halfs wouldn't approve.
One thing she did tell me just before I broke it off was that she had never stayed faithful to any partner in the past so i don't know if that is a factor. |
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