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socal1476
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Post subject: Don't know what to do?
 Posted: Mar 26, 2008 - 11:57 PM
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Joined: Mar 13, 2008
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I met this guy and have talk to him a couple times on the phone and hung out with him a couple weekends in a row. We are basically just friends with "benefits" kinda thing. Last weekend a group of us all went out bar hoping and then ended back at his place to sit in the jacuzzi. Here is the bad part!!! I was told by him that I could spend the night at his house that night..so of course naturally my stuff was in his room! K...we all got in the jacuzzi except for one girl who eventually went back in the house. This guy "the friend" was the first one out of the jacuzzi and the rest of us got out within 5-10 minutes later. In that short of time this guy was already in his room with the door shut and locked with this other girl who never got in the jacuzzi....Mind you my stuff is in there too! Long story short I had to wait for my stuff until they were done screwing to get it back then he didn't even have the nerve to show his face then I left and haven't seen or talked to him since.
Now I want to call or send him a text saying how F'D UP that was of him to do that...Should I or should I just let it go and the next time I see him then bring it up??? Don't know what to do...Please give me some advise.
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Janice
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Posted: Mar 28, 2008 - 02:29 AM
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From this post and others that you posted, it sounds like you are hanging out with losers who have no respect for you. The usual reason for this is because a woman doesn't have much self-respect, so she's willing to accept a "friend with benefits" deal. Unfortunately, when a woman allows this to happen, the man puts more focus on the "benefits" than on the "friend" part. A real friend wouldn't dis you the way he did.
If you want help finding and developing a relationship with a man who will treat you like a human being, then I suggest you read some of the articles on this website. |
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