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socal1476
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Post subject: Is he interested
 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 - 06:28 PM
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Here is my problem....Well not really a problem but anyway!
I met this guy (my brothers neighbor) to be exact. We have spent the weekend together at night for the last couple weeks...Meaning I have spent the night at his house. He has my # and I have his, now we have only talked on the phone twice but I am wondering if he is interested at all??? The first time I spent the night the next morning he called me "cupcake" ?? I don't know him all that well but from what I have seen and noticed from being around him so far is that he seems very quiet around me. Maybe he is that way around girls in general??? Maybe he is unsure of weather I am interested or not....I don't know, please give me advise! |
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socal1476
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Posted: Mar 13, 2008 - 08:01 PM
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What do you think about when you spend the weekend nights with a guy and are very intimate with each other during that time.....When you leave the next day he kisses and hugs you and tells you till next time! I have only known him for about a month and have only spent 3 nights with him. He is quiet when it is just him and I but every time seems to be getting better. I am not sure if he just wants the friends with "benefits" or if he has a spark for me but is afraid to show or say it. I also might think that he maybe has an issue with me the sister of his neighbor. Please let me know your thought on this situation!!! Thanks  |
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Janice
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Posted: Mar 16, 2008 - 03:50 AM
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I can't tell from your posts if you are actually going out on any "dates" with this guy, and if your interactions are anything more than sexual. It's clear that he's interested in you for the "benefits," but if he were truly interested in you as a friend or a girlfriend, then he would be wanting to take you out to eat, go to the movies, hang out at friends' and parties, etc.
See if you can answer the following questions --does he act secretive about being with you? Does he call, text, i.m. or email you between liasians? Do you think he talks about you to others? The answers will help you figure out the degree of his interest in you. If you want more than what he's giving you, then I suggest that you initiate a discusion with him about your feelings and needs. Otherwise, it's just going to be the way it is for as long as you let it. |
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socal1476
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Posted: Mar 20, 2008 - 09:31 PM
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| The problem is I live an hour from where he lives so I am not around him often. We don't talk on the phone really and he can't text from his cell phone and I don't know an email address for him and he doesn't know mine. When we do see each other yes, we do hang out at parties and etc....I am not sure if he talks of me to others and I don't think it is any secret of us being together. ??? I think next time I see him in person I will have to initiate a discussion and ask questions I guess. My thinking is if he was really interested than he would at least call me on the phone??? He is my brother's neighbor so maybe that is an issue with him! I don't know. |
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