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Post subject: what is he thinking?
 Posted: Nov 11, 2007 - 11:59 AM
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Joined: Nov 11, 2007
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me & my ex planned to go out for coffee. i told him to inform his gf. he said "dont care about her" & i asked him, "does he love his gf? he sae "no". & i replied, "then y u want to b with her in the 1st place" his reply was "i Dont know". initially we planned to go out on friday night. he said he'll confirm with me on thurs but because it is public holiday, he has no idea what was his work schedule was like on fri. i waited until friday noon, he still hasnt confirm with me, so i called him to ask, he said he cant make it. thus i asked him why he didnt inform me. he said he plan to tell me after his work. thus i sae, ok see you on sunday. he paused a while and said ok!
on saturday i called him to set a time, he was busy working & said that he will call me after his work which he didnt. on sunday, afternoon i called him again to ask him whether or not he still interested. he said yesterday he forgot abt it & right now he is busying painting his house!! he promised again and again that he will call me back after painting his hse which he didnt...
right now i dont know what is going through his mind. i treat him like my frien, i think he is treating me as a friend too. he would talk to me on the phone. it seems like we are v close but somehow he is escaping from meeting me up. he is afraid or wat? anyway we are friend now, so what is he scared of then? why is that so?? |
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Janice
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Posted: Nov 18, 2007 - 01:36 AM
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Joined: Mar 19, 2004
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Location: New York City
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You'll have to explain to me why you want this guy as a friend. He doesn't seem to be interested in getting together with you or, in the least, being reliable about keeping in touch with you. What kind of person would want a "friend" that you have to keep calling in order to make and/or follow through on plans?
Truthfully, the way you describe what's going on, it's hard to tell that he is no longer your boyfriend. You expect him to make dates to hang out with you, but he's not your boyfriend, he's someone else's now. I suspect that if you had other men to date, then you wouldn't be calling this guy all of the time. BTW -- I counted that you called him 3 times over the weekend. He called you 0 times, even though he said he would. Doesn't that tell you anything about how he sees your "friendship?" Like, non-existent? |
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