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t1266
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Post subject: dating and still searching online
 Posted: Jan 21, 2007 - 09:11 PM
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Joined: Jan 21, 2007
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| I have been on several dates with a guy and we have a great time together, we also were intimate on the fourth date. My question is he makes efforts to call me and see me, yet I find that he still goes online? It's only been 3 weeks of dating, is he into me or just keeping his options open by keeping me around until he finds someone else? How long should it take to talk about seeing each other exclusively? |
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Janice
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Post subject: Dating & still searching online
Posted: Jan 28, 2007 - 10:35 PM
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Joined: Mar 19, 2004
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Location: New York City
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The guy you're dating will continue to look to date other women until and unless you have "the talk" about becoming exclusive. Some singles consider three weeks may be kind of early to agree to not date others. But you seem to have some feelings about him dating others, and that might be because you've become physically intimate.
Rather than ask about being exclusive directly, you may want to share your feelings about what it means to you to be sexually involved with someone. You can tell him that you aren't interested in dating other men, and then see how he responds.
In the meantime, I suggest that you continue to hang out together and talk about your relationship dreams and goals in order to determine if you are on the same wave length. See if you're compatible on intellectual, emotional and spiritual/life path levels. Listen to what he says and observe how he behaves. You'll get a lot of information that way to help you determine if you still want to be exclusive. Good luck! |
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