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Dear Janice, I just started dating someone, we have gone out twice, and I am not
sure where things are going. I have been burned before, so is there a way not to
get burned again and not to let these past feelings ruin this potential
relationship? Thanks, Ellen
Dear Ellen, It’s good that you're aware that past relationship hurts
could potentially get in the way, or possibly ruin, a current relationship.
When you say that you’re “not sure where things are going,” it means that you
are not dating “consciously.” Dating consciously means that you already know
yourself and what you are looking for in a partner, and that you take
responsibility for who you choose to have in your life. Alternatively, if you’re
just hanging out and doing what feels good together in the moment, you put
yourself at risk of getting burned again.
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Posted by: Janice
on Tuesday, November 04, 2003
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Hi Janice, I am an educated and attractive 24 year old lady looking to meet a
marriage minded man. I'm very successful in my career, but like many career-oriented
young people in my line of work, I spend many hours at my job. I am finding it
very difficult to meet young single men. Do you have any suggestions? Do you think
I should hire a matchmaker to help me out? What do you think? Rachel
Dear Rachel, First of all, I want to congratulate you for having succeeded in
your career as a result of your hard work. I have to suggest, however, that in
order to be successful at finding a husband, that you make time in your life to
seriously attend to your social life. That means that you make dating a priority,
by thinking about where to go, who to talk to and network with, and how to present
yourself as marriage-minded. Alternatively, if you just squeeze dating into a
busy work schedule, you may not get the results that you want.
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Posted by: Janice
on Thursday, October 02, 2003
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