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I am really growing in all areas of my life because of your coaching. I'm continuing to utilize the skills I developed during our work & find that I am more confident to entertain new potential relationships. I am indebted to you, Janice. Many blessings!
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Dear Janice, I don't know where to start. I travel a lot for business, but when I was on a job I meet this woman and we hit it off. But then I had to go to my next job, but we stayed in touch. When we first met she was single, but when I came back to her town to do another job I looked her up, we hung out and had a lot of fun getting to know each other more. She told me that she had to move back in with her EX. We still see each other whenever I'm in town but she tells me that she want to leave him but can't because she does not have anywhere to go. She tells me that she loves me and yes I do love her too. I just don't know what I should do. Should I gave up on her or not? Michael Hi Michael, The situation you are in with this woman is not as complicated as you may think. Basically, she is going out with you while still living with another man. I don't think it matters what she tells you about not having any other place to go. She's not truly available to be in a different relationship, i.e., with you, while she is still dependent on this other man.
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If you want to be with this woman, then I suggest you help her to become independent before changing her dependency from one man to another. Until you get to know her better, like what kind of values and life goals she has, and if you share them, she might just be shopping around for better living quarters. And is that what you want?
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Posted by: Janice on Saturday, June 20, 2009 - 05:00 AM
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lance_lyssia98@yahoo.com
Jun 29, 2009 - 09:37 PM
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thank's
I found this very informative, but true. After reading it, the ansewer seemed like common sense, and i felt a little stupid, Beacause i too have been in a similar situation. Oh well, as they say, love is blind lol
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