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In a previous blog post, I discussed the phenomenon of change. I said that the natural shifts in nature occurring in the late summer and early fall make it easier to facilitate change, if you choose to make any.
But I realized that I wasn't finished talking about the subject! Not when
there are singles like you who want to make a change in their lives and become part of a gratifying life partner relationship. What kind of changes do those singles have to make in order to reach that goal? I don't have the one answer that'll fit for everyone, but I recently gained a new perspective. Here's how it happened: I was talking with my coach the other day. "What?" you may ask. "Janice has a coach?" Of course I do! I partner with a coach in order to get the information, support, insight and guidance I need to reach my goal of building a successful coaching business. And when I say "successful," I mean to reach as many singles as possible to give them the services they need to attain the kind of relationships and lives that they want. . . . But I digress. My coach reminded me about what happens when a person isn't successful in reaching his/her goals. She said that if you keep encountering obstacles, then you will continue to get the same result unless you change your whole approach. So while I could read a book or attend a teleclass or two about coaching, I'm not going to get as much mileage out of them as I would if they were part of a larger, customized action-plan I had co-created with an experienced coach. Although this conversation pertained to changes I need to make to reach my business goals, I realized that it also applies to singles searching for a life partner relationship . . . .
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Attaining the kind of relationship you want is not just about changing your pictures on your profile, or buying a book about dating. Because in the big picture, in the context of all of the obstacles that you've encountered up to now, the chances are small that they will make that much of a difference. That's because getting the results you desire has to be planned in the context of the bigger picture. I have spoken to hundreds of singles who don't see how years and years of doing the same old-same old still hasn't gotten them the kind of relationship they want. Why? Because they don't see that they need to change their whole perspective, their whole attitude, their whole approach, in order to get the clarity that's vital to attaining their desired result. Otherwise, a book here, a lecture there, a new haircut or new pictures won't be enough to get you that relationship. If you partner with me as your coach, I will see your success as my success, and my success as your success. Has continuing to do what you're doing alone worked for you? I bet that it hasn't. Getting the relationship you want will have a better chance of happening if we work together. Don't waste more time by thinking about it for too long. I'm waiting to hear from you.
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Posted by: Janice on Monday, September 27, 2004 - 03:00 AM
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