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This is silly, but I need some advice. I am 20 years old and have been in a relationship with my current fiance (7 years older than me) for 4 years in March 2008. We are from a small town and we moved to a big city. I currently work in a business were I am the only girl. I developed a crush on my boss who is 12 years older than me. This crush has been developing more and more. Now I am not sure what to do. This crush started to develop more when my fiance asked my dad for permision to marry me. I also feel that my boss may feel the same way. But I am not sure how to tell directly since I have been in a relationship since I was 17. Can you help? C. Hmmm -- your "crush started to develop more" after your fiance took the next big step toward getting married. While you may legitimately be attracted to your boss, the timing is suspicious. At your age, a 12 year age gap is pretty significant. And even if your boss likes you, if he were to act on his interest in you, then he could jeopardize not only your job, but his. </p If you're confused about whether or not you want to make a life-time commitment to your boyfriend/fiance, then I suggest that you start by talking with him. If you're distracted by your boss, then perhaps you can get transferred to another department, or even find another job. If none of these things work, then I suggest you talk with a professional psychotherapist to help you get clarity on your thoughts and feelings. Let me know if you need help to find one in your area. Good luck!
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